Family is a strength for anyone. Family is a place where one or two or more person can support you, can understand you, can help you out to overcome from introversion stage. In other words, you can say family is a backbone of any person. So let's understand how family can help in this stage: Stop comparing: Nowadays, it became a fashion to compare your own things with others, to compare ourself with others or to compare our children with other's children. But here, the role of the family starts. Family members should understand how badly effect this type of comparison. Everyone has their own potential. Try to find out those abilities, those qualities and encourage them. Understanding: The second important factor is to understand a reserved person. Remember they are reserved one not an open book, so it is very difficult to understand them but not impossible. But your own effort can help them to overcome this stage. Afterall they are your own. Pay attention :
Are you surprised to see these extraordinary personality's pics in this blog?
You would be more amazed to know that all these persons were an introvert.
Have you read their qualities as mentioned above? Yes, they are introverts with special qualities.
In this blog I will focus on the bright side of reserved personality people. Actually, I will focus on those points, what I have realized very late in my life and this was a big blunder.
Let's focus on those positive points:
Deep Thinkers
As we love solitude, we spend our times in thinking deeply on any matter. Even we always think before speak. Introverts can take it as an advantage. Being an introvert we try to find out all pros and cons of any topic then we come to the conclusion. We don't like to talk too much without any point. We sit silently, focus on our topic or fact, without any disturbances and then we come to the conclusion. Nobody can denied those conclusions.
Those who understand this power they can be a great writer, poet or philosopher, etc. Otherwise, just waste your time on thinking about stupid things.
Good listeners
Suppose you are talking about any important matter and nobody is willing to hear that, would you feel good? Listening is also an important tool for good communication. If we are a good listener then only we can come to the correct conclusion. Those who loves talking too much without listening others point of view sometimes they have to face insult also. We speak less so we can focus on other words, which can enhance our knowledge, our confidence. Introverts are always ready to listen others grief or happiness, without wasting time on gossiping or criticism.
Quality friends
As I said that we have a small group of friends but those are our true friends. We make friends who never make fun of us, we make friends who understand us, we make friends who motivate us and you better know that these are the qualities of a good friend. As well as we also know what is the value of a true friend and we always try to be a quality friend.
Interest in creative thing
We love to do creative activities because we enjoy to implement our thinking power in doing so. Being a teacher I always enjoy creative work with my students. I enjoy to utilize my time in creative things. Yes friends we have such a wonderful thinking power. So please stop blaming yourself that I am nothing, I can't do anything, just because you are an introvert. You have thinking power. Always remember, those who can think, they can win.
Great leader
My introvert readers may be surprised to read this that we can lead. But this is a fact believe me. You can see many leaders among those pictures. Ok, leave them just take an example of a motivator Mr. Sandeep Maheshwari. Have you heard about him? Have you listen to his sessions? He is an introvert but now today he is leading a large group of young generation.
So friends being an introvert is not a curse, it can be a boon. We just need to recognize ourself and convert our weakness into strength.
How?? I will tell about this in my next blog. Hope you will enjoy that.
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