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Role of Family

Family is a strength for anyone. Family is a place where one or two or more person can support you, can understand you, can help you out to overcome from introversion stage. In other words, you can say family is a backbone of any person. So let's understand how family can help in this stage: Stop comparing:  Nowadays, it became a fashion to compare your own things with others, to compare ourself with others or to compare our children with other's children. But here, the role of the family starts. Family members should understand how badly effect this type of comparison. Everyone has their own potential. Try to find out those abilities, those qualities and encourage them.  Understanding:  The second important    factor is to understand a reserved person.  Remember they are reserved one not an open book, so it is very difficult to understand them but not impossible. But your own effort can help them to overcome this stage. Afterall they are your own.  Pay attention :

Role of Family

Family is a strength for anyone. Family is a place where one or two or more person can support you, can understand you, can help you out to overcome from introversion stage. In other words, you can say family is a backbone of any person. So let's understand how family can help in this stage:

Stop comparing: Nowadays, it became a fashion to compare your own things with others, to compare ourself with others or to compare our children with other's children. But here, the role of the family starts. Family members should understand how badly effect this type of comparison. Everyone has their own potential. Try to find out those abilities, those qualities and encourage them. 

Understanding: The second important    factor is to understand a reserved person.  Remember they are reserved one not an open book, so it is very difficult to understand them but not impossible. But your own effort can help them to overcome this stage. Afterall they are your own. 

Pay attention: Reserved person always hesitate to express themselves, they hesitate to work together, just because of criticism. So we should always try to make them feel comfortable. Here pay attention doesn't means to keep an eye on their work or on them, it means to take care of them. We should involve them to take any decision, any planning etc. so that they won't feel loneliness. 

Motivation: Third important factor is to motivate them. After paying attention and understand them, you would be able to know their strength. You have to push their energy towards their positive factor, you have to motivate them. Always remember everyone has their own potential. 

Appreciation: Last important factor is to appreciate them. Every person wants the praise for their work, but in the case of reserved person it is little more demanding. They generally got fed up with negative comments,  that's why they always looks for appreciation or rewards. Therefore, try to appreciate them for each and every small achievements. 







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