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Role of Family

Family is a strength for anyone. Family is a place where one or two or more person can support you, can understand you, can help you out to overcome from introversion stage. In other words, you can say family is a backbone of any person. So let's understand how family can help in this stage: Stop comparing:  Nowadays, it became a fashion to compare your own things with others, to compare ourself with others or to compare our children with other's children. But here, the role of the family starts. Family members should understand how badly effect this type of comparison. Everyone has their own potential. Try to find out those abilities, those qualities and encourage them.  Understanding:  The second important    factor is to understand a reserved person.  Remember they are reserved one not an open book, so it is very difficult to understand them but not impossible. But your own effort can help them to overcome this stage. Afterall they are y...

Drawbacks of being an introvert

Sometimes we think that how people communicate with each other so frankly, how people have such a large group of friends, how they make happy those friends. But why I can't do that? Although I am very polite to everyone yet nobody wants to make me a friend. 

Here the big question is why. Why this happens to me only? Sometimes we talk to ourselves and ask this question, can anybody tell me what kind of weaknesses I have, why people treat me like this?

This is the question of an introvert's mind. So friends here, in this blog, I am going to tell you about  four major weaknesses or drawbacks of an introvert.

These four weaknesses are interrelated with each other. Let's understand how.

Lack of communication skills : First of all let's talk about lack of communication skills. This is the top most drawback for introverts. Although they might have lots of knowledge, they might have lots of ideas and thoughts, yet mostly they are failed to express themselves. They always hesitate to express, always thought about criticism.

Bad first impression : Second major disadvantage is making bad first impression. Due to lack of communication skills they always make wrong impression at first sight. People start making fun, sometimes they start insulting them. They try to avoid them. Sometimes, it became major problem for a job seeker, because they always create bad impression in front of interviewers.

Uncomfortable in social environment:  Making fun by others or criticize by others, introverts always feel uncomfortable in social environment. They enjoy solitude, because this is the state when they far away from people's criticisms. They mostly avoid to go in parties or being a part of any gathering.

Unable to make friends: Due to hesitate nature, fail to impress others, unable to make strong communication, nobody likes to accept them as a friend. Actually, they have only one or two real friend or they have very small friend circle.



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