Family is a strength for anyone. Family is a place where one or two or more person can support you, can understand you, can help you out to overcome from introversion stage. In other words, you can say family is a backbone of any person. So let's understand how family can help in this stage: Stop comparing: Nowadays, it became a fashion to compare your own things with others, to compare ourself with others or to compare our children with other's children. But here, the role of the family starts. Family members should understand how badly effect this type of comparison. Everyone has their own potential. Try to find out those abilities, those qualities and encourage them. Understanding: The second important factor is to understand a reserved person. Remember they are reserved one not an open book, so it is very difficult to understand them but not impossible. But your own effort can help them to overcome this stage. Afterall they are y...
Let's know more about reserved persons
Are you an introvert?
Can you identify an introvert person?
Can you guess whether your friend or anyone around you is an introvert person or not?
Yes, of course, if you know few characteristics of a reserved person or an introvert person you can easily identify them.
So, let me tell you about myself or characters of a reserved person and these are myths also related to an introvert.
Introverts don't like to talk
We are no chatterbox, who talks a lot. As I said in my previous blog that I always want to talk to others but as I start talking, everytime I loose my confidence. This happens with every introvert person and what people think she/he doesn't like to talk. And one more thing we like to talk, if you come to talk with us, trust me we feel very happy.
Introverts are shy
Really??? I don't think so. Shy and introvert both are different. We generally hesitate to share things, to share feelings, to start talking. I rembember how I hesitate to share even my lunch box with my friends, not only school days but at my work place also. Do you know what people talk about me? They say how arrogant she is, she doesn't know sharing is a good thing. But actually I always think about people's criticism regarding my food.
Introverts are rude
You people think that we should be called as Mr./Ms. Rude. Isn't it? Actually I always being called as a rude person, not only in childhood but today also. But let me tell you that we introvert persons are really not rude, we became rude when we ignored or misbehaved by others. Sometimes, we response to those attitudes by silence and what you think, we are rude. If we strictly response to them by our words, then you also say we are rude. Then tell me what should we do?
Introverts don't like people
We really don't hate people. Infact we start hating us when people criticize us. That's why we have very small group of friends. We alwaya look for a friend who never criticize, who always motivate us, who understand us, who never point out our weakness, in fact who have power to convert our weakness into strength.
Introverts always want to be alone
We don't want to be alone but we enjoy solitude, because this is the state when we far away from people's criticisms. But this is not our weakness actually. While enjoying our solitude we can spend our times in deep thinking on any useful matter.
When people criticize and don't what to accept us just because we are not free to express ourselves like them, it hurt us.
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True words.....we must support introverts...be friendly with them
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