Skip to main content

Role of Family

Family is a strength for anyone. Family is a place where one or two or more person can support you, can understand you, can help you out to overcome from introversion stage. In other words, you can say family is a backbone of any person. So let's understand how family can help in this stage: Stop comparing:  Nowadays, it became a fashion to compare your own things with others, to compare ourself with others or to compare our children with other's children. But here, the role of the family starts. Family members should understand how badly effect this type of comparison. Everyone has their own potential. Try to find out those abilities, those qualities and encourage them.  Understanding:  The second important    factor is to understand a reserved person.  Remember they are reserved one not an open book, so it is very difficult to understand them but not impossible. But your own effort can help them to overcome this stage. Afterall they are y...
Post a Comment

Let's know more about reserved persons

Let's know more about reserved persons


Are you an introvert?
Can you identify an introvert person?
Can you guess whether your friend or anyone around you is an introvert person or not?

Yes, of course, if you know few characteristics of a reserved person or an introvert person you can easily identify them.

     So, let me tell you about myself or characters of a reserved person and these are myths also related to an introvert.

Introverts don't like to talk


We are no chatterbox, who talks a lot. As I said in my previous blog that I always want to talk to others but as I start talking, everytime I loose my confidence. This happens with every introvert person and what people think she/he doesn't like to talk. And one more thing we like to talk, if you come to talk with us, trust me we feel very happy.

Introverts are shy


Really??? I don't think so. Shy and introvert both are different. We generally hesitate to share things, to share feelings, to start talking. I rembember how I hesitate to share even my lunch box with my friends, not only school days but at my work place also. Do you know what people talk about me? They say how arrogant she is, she doesn't know sharing is a good thing. But actually I always think about people's criticism regarding my food. 

Introverts are rude


You people think that we should be called as Mr./Ms. Rude. Isn't it?  Actually I always being called as a rude person, not only in childhood but today also. But let me tell you that we introvert persons are really not rude, we became rude when we ignored or misbehaved by others. Sometimes, we response to those attitudes by silence and what you think, we are rude. If we strictly response to them by our words, then you also say we are rude. Then tell me what should we do?

Introverts don't like people


We really don't hate people. Infact we start hating us when people criticize us. That's why we have very small group of friends. We alwaya look for a friend who never criticize, who always motivate us, who understand us, who never point out our weakness, in fact who have power to convert our weakness into strength.

Introverts always want to be alone


We don't want to be alone but we enjoy solitude, because this is the state when we far away from people's criticisms. But this is not our weakness actually. While enjoying our solitude we can spend our times in deep thinking on any useful matter.

When people criticize and don't what to accept us just because we are not free to express ourselves like them, it hurt us.

Read this also:






Comments

Post a Comment

Popular posts from this blog

Drawbacks of being an introvert

Sometimes we think that how people communicate with each other so frankly, how people have such a large group of friends, how they make happy those friends. But why I can't do that? Although I am very polite to everyone yet nobody wants to make me a friend.  Here the big question is why. Why this happens to me only? Sometimes we talk to ourselves and ask this question,  can anybody tell me what kind of weaknesses I have, why people treat me like this? This is the question of an introvert's mind. So friends here, in this blog, I am going to tell you about  four major weaknesses or drawbacks of an introvert. These four weaknesses are interrelated with each other. Let's understand how. Lack of communication skills  : First of all let's talk about lack of communication skills. This is the top most drawback for introverts. Although they might have lots of knowledge, they might have lots of ideas and thoughts, yet mostly they are failed to express themse...
Post a Comment
Read more

Self Motivation

In my previous blog I have already discussed about  how to overcome from introversion stage . There are mainly four persons who can help in this situation: person himself, family, society and his teacher. In this blog I will focus on those factors through which a person can help himself on his own. Let's try to understand those points. 1. Stop Labeling Yourself as An I ntrovert :   First of all friends what you have to do is stop underestimating yourself. Being an introvert is not always bad , but  thinking negative that I am an introvert and I can't do anything, can be worst. Try to focus on your positive quality rather than your weaknesses.   For example: Suppose you are a  deep thinker , try to write something, like poetry or on any other matter. 2. Practice and Plan:   Practice makes man perfect, this line suits here also. Never give up, keep practicing. If you want to any action for which you are not confident then just make a pl...
Post a Comment
Read more